Monday, May 14, 2007

Sugasm #80

Sugasm: A Devilish DigestSugasm #80

Thanks to Sugasm for including my piece!

Sugasm #80
This Week’s Picks
A Blue Hot Horny House Call (dirtydetails.blogspot.com…)
“Saliva splashed to her hands as she worked me to a mighty stiff erection.”
Part Three: Sorbet at Night ( smart-girls.blogspot.com…)“With every thrust, I was louder and louder, my hands clawing for something to squeeze besides the brick wall of his building.”
Tighter: the hotel (erotischism.blogspot.com…)“One by one, I tied the ropes to the cuffs, and then made adjustments so that she was taut, with her arms and legs splayed out.”Mr. Sugasm Himself
Photo Manipulation (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice
Office Masturbation - part one (eroticawriter.blogspot.com…)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
I watched some gals in kalamazoo ( hard-and-fast.blogspot.com…)
Porn and Erotica and Threesomes (mercedessexadventures.blogspot.com…)
Taste yourself: another irritating tool of misogyny (in which I do get explicit) ( un-cool.blogspot.com…)
When Is Sex “Genuine”? ( perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)
Sex & PoliticsMedia Exploitation of a Sex Worker Past (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)
Sex WorkSex and Disability Part II (englishcourtesan.blogspot.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Audio: Rubbin’ My Duckie (www.taratainton.com…)
The Crotchless Bodysuit: An Introduction (marriedexploits.blogspot.com… )
Half-Nekkid by Request ( sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com…)
HNT - It’s A Wrap (talktovanessa.com…)I Feel Myself (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Sara X (Gothic Sluts) (viviane212.blogspot.com…)
Warmer Days (dirtyandthirty.blogspot.com…)

BDSM & Fetish
Blind Faith (www.betweensheets.net…)
Happy HNT - Shadow paddling (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
Still sex-starved…relatively speaking (twentyfoursevends.blogspot.com… )
A Submissive Girl’s Learning Curve ( shesinheat.blogspot.com…)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
After Concert (davidsconfessions.blogspot.com…)
At the Gym (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
Glistening…. (clearslate2007.wordpress.com… )
Half-Nekkid Sex Blogging Stud (www.tarasnaughtyshop.com…)
Hedonism on Paradise - Part Five (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com… )
Hospital Freaks ( confessions112.blogspot.com…)
It can be anyone! ( lastbreath.wordpress.com…)
On My Back (thenakedrhetoricaltruth.blogspot.com…)
Oral Sex (imelda-imelda.blogspot.com… )

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Porn and Erotica and Threesomes

I have been reading erotic blogs a lot of the morning instead of doing what I'm supposed to be doing. I have a lot of paperwork to get done and some calls to make. At any rate, it occurred to me while reading other blogs that I don't write erotica. No, what I write is basically porn, perhaps soft porn, but not that soft, and porn nonetheless. I'm not sure if this is good or bad, probably bad.

What distinguishes porn from erotica? Porn lacks details. Erotica is full of them. But I'm scared of details because it threatens my anonymity. Really, I started this site as an alternative to a journal. I was afraid someone would find the journal no matter where I hid it. Also, there was that chance that I would accidently leave it lying around. So I thought where's the best place to keep a sex journal that no one would ever read? Then I thought--why the www.

It was that Edgar Allen Poe "Purloined Letter" thing--the best place to hide something is out in the open. Now, of course, I'm wishing I had readers although I don't know why. This journal was supposed to be entirely about me, for me, and only me, where I didn't have to worry about being too smutty or not writing beautifully enough because that is the kind of thing that stifles what it is I need to say.

Meanwhile X and I continue to email furiously although this is not a good time of the month. Additionally I get more offers from men who want to fulfull my fantasy of a threesome. Now there are three sets of men. I am getting over my guilt, but this is going to be a hard week, and I don't see how I'm going to fit anything but regular sex into it.

7 comments:

The Fury said...

Writing porn is ok too. We all have our porn entries whether to protect ourselves or because the details aren't really that important to the reader who is gonna skip tot he juicy part anyway. I know writers who write with so many wonderful details and it feels so light and erotic. Then you have me where my writing is about as subtle as an elbow to the nose.

Enjoy the experience. If you want readers...you just got a whole bunch!

Vanessa said...

I tend to be detail-heavy, so I'm guessing most people don't bother reading 90% of my posts anyway. I've even had a guy tell me straight up it wasn't "raw" enough for him.

Who gives a crap? You're writing this for you. I tend to forget that sometimes. If you start writing for the reader, (the reader you didn't want in the first place) well, you lose your authenticity.

Keep it real. Whether it's Porn, Erotica, or your grocery list. You're the only one who can. It's your voice.

Cheers!

Vanessa

Richard said...

Hmmmm... I always figured erotica had less detail. Hard to distinguish between the two, I guess.

I've done work(video, photography, and writing) that would easily fit into either category, and been quite happy with how it turned out.

I tend to define the difference between porn and erotica by intent, rather than content.

Morality Loophole said...

I agree on the "Intent rather than content line." The intent of porn is to get you off by the time you're done reading or watching. The intent of erotica is to get you in the mood to get off.

Or another take says that erotica is porn that leaves you wanting.

vsk witness said...

Porn gets so formulaic yet sometimes we want a formula. Every time I try to ride erotica I slide into porn. A couple of posts ago I did an entry with what I thought was a fair piece and nada. We all have to remember that our audience is between our ears . . .

Martin said...

Pornöse Angelegenheit :)

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